My Childhood Life
Wednesday, 16 October 2013 • 08:29 • 0 comments

  Hey!!.Who is the cute baby in the picture above?.What are you saying just now?.Cute?.*blushing..Haha!.Please guess friends.First clue, the baby is a girl.

Siti:Okay,let's me guess.She is Syafa.
Writer:Oh.no.. no..hehe..next?
Ahmad:Hah!.I know!.Witt!I'm right?
Writer:.Haha..tettt...It's wrong..The answer is.....it's me.Arifa=)..Hehehe

  Okay.Let's move on the topic.Why I put those picture?.The 19 years ago picture of me?.Haha.My dearest reader,of course I will put my cute picture above because.....hey..just look on the tittle of entry.It is about 'My Childhood Life' .Oh,it's such a wonderful life ever after.I really love my childhood life where I do not care about homework, assignment, study, problems, and so on.I am free with those things that is making my brain burst and makes me crazy.Ohh,it's too much Arifa.Enough.Enough.Haha.*this is too annoying.

  What is a childhood?.Childhood is the time for children to be in school and at play, to grow strong and confident with the love and encouragement of their family and an extended community of caring adults

  Childhood is free from cares.There are no duties and responsibilities on the shoulders of a child.A child lives in a bliss an ignorance and innocent.Really as Wordsworth says,"Heaven lies about us in our fancy".The memory of these good days makes me happy.But,wait a minute.What is the memory that had my days happy during my childhood?.There are a thousands of memories which I can't write all in this entry.Hey,there is no enough space for me.The story is too long.

   When I was about 1 to 3 years old, my mum said I did not like a yellow colour.If i'm not mistaken I was angry with my mum  and cried because she bought me a yellow colour of 'baju kurung' for raya.

  Addition, I not often stay in my own house which my neightbour will always picked up me to their house and looked-after me like their own daughter or sister.

  Besides, they love me so much as I'm their own family.Futhermore, when I was young and until now, I love travelling.Hehe.This is because my uncle and my auntie always bring me to travel somewhere.So,on 9 years old I have been travel almost all coutry in Malaysia such as Pulau Pinang, Kelantan, Terengganu, Langkawi, Perlis,Johor, Melaka, Kuala Lumpur and Pahang.

  When I was six years old,I was sent to a kindergarten called "Tadika Kemas".I have made many friends and until now I still remember them.There was many memories with them that still fresh in my minds.The one that I really can't forget is the moments when I and the other two friends was scolded with our's teacher and I still remember her name which is teacher Hanim because she blame us prick the malaysia flag sticker with pencil on the small whiteboard.Since that moments,I really hate the teacher because we did not prick the sticker.I was very angry with her on that time.Haha.Pity on me right.But,why must us being scolded?.Hah.This is because we are always being the last kids going home.=P

   I remember it like yesterday.The minutes felt like hours. There are not at all the childhood life of me is good memories.For me such as eleven years old kids on that day,I had understand what is dead.Yes,when I was a kids I have my own sad memory which is watching my grandfather passed away.It is already 8 years ago, I can still remember receiving the phone call from my uncle, my mother letting out a distraught cry that my grandfather was in hospital. My first reaction was shock and confusion. I just couldn’t understand what had happened. 

  My grandfather being warded in ICU for a weeks.The doctor didn’t tell us much, but he informed us that there was no chance and maybe my grandfather will ended his breath on this thursday. That was not all we really needed but as a Muslim we have to accept the destiny that ALLAH SWT have plans.So we all family had make an agreement together to bring my grandfather went home.It was too sad seeing him landing on the bed without any movement.He just drink a cup of milk through his nose.My tears drop easily seeing him.Only ALLAH SWT knows what I felt.A Day by day,my grandfather situation getting worse.At 4.20 a.m.,my auntie woke me up from sleeping.

Auntie:Najla,wake up.
Me:why auntie?
Autie:Your grandfather has passed away.

  I think it's enough of story my childhood life before my tears drop like a waterfall.This is not interesting life for the readers,but for me all the moments what I have shared with you above is the important events in my childhood life.Thank You.

What do you think of kids’ space nowadays? 

  I was looking at some old picture . The me when I was baby , when i was like 2 or 3 years old , the me with those kindergarten uniform as a water bottle shape like a handphone hanged on my neck .

  It's make me wonder . Those time , there is no ipad , or iphone and what I had was a bear and friend that constantly tease me for being dirty . And then now , kids with same age as me before , know facebook , dota and whatever that me don't even know . I just wonder , will they learn how to play 'galah panjang' , 'baling selipar' or dirty their hand playing with 'tanah liat' . 

Those time was priceless . And now , when we're getting older , we miss it even more .


cultural taboos
• 08:29 • 0 comments
Hi everyone. I want to share a story with you  about taboo in our Malay community.Before that,didi you know what is taboo?Well then,based on wikipedia, A taboo is a vehement prohibition of an action based on the belief that such behavior is either too sacred or too accursed for ordinary individuals to undertake, under threat of supernatural punishment.In a short term,taboo is prohibited,disallow or forbidden.So,now you have understand,right.Ok let’s proceed with my story.
     If you still remember,too many taboos that has been presented to us, especially when we were children. As a child, I always wondered whether the prohibition is true or plot. Before puberty at that time, I certainly will not be able to know the truth. But the more I mature, I almost find the answer. But I am not sure whether the answer is true or merely hypothetical.
     Among the common taboo I have heard are as follows:

     “Do not point finger towards the rainbow, the consequences of your finger will be crippled”. O Allah! I have heard horror. If I noticed about the existence of the rainbow, I will soon hide the finger into the pocket. But I think that the prohibition was made because our ancestors worried because rainbow appears indicating drizzle. So if we drabble rain, we’ll fever. Correct?It seems true,right?

     There are also my grandmother who say, “do not sit on the pillow, that’s  infected boils around the anus”. It sounds very strange. Since I was very stubborn, I have dared to experiment. Without feeling guilty, I was sitting on a pillow several times to accept the alleged curse. Cis! No boil grow at all! Farenova been duped again. But then I realize now, use pillows to lay the head, not the anus. If we sit on the pillow, pillow will result smelling anus. Correct?Hahaha,it is a very funny taboos.

     There are also old people say, “do not open an umbrella in the house, or  the snake will enter the house”. About this taboo is still confused and I am stuck to find the answer. Ah .. I do not know what the rationale behind it. But I think there may be a sharp corner on the umbrella in case of negligence which may puncture the eye. Don’t you agree?It sounds logic in my mind.

      Ok.There is also forbidden taboo that it sounds very prank. It sounds like this, “girls who are not married cannot sing in the kitchen, as feared would be delayed marriage”. Perghhhhh … Very terrible and obsessive thought all girls,right? As a precaution, many girls afraid to sing in the kitchen. They decided to sing in the toilet, they bark with emotions and think of themselves is like Siti Nurhaliza. I took a long time to find the answer. But on this day there may be truth to the assumption that I have derived.From my opinion, when girls singing in the kitchen, there is a possibility they will be splashed saliva into the dish or food in the pot. It only just the puzzle. If you have a more accurate answer, please  share with me.But still,I myself likes to sing while cooking in the kitchen.Hahaha.

     Actually too much taboos and customs that do not make sense can be found in the traditions of our society,but behind the trickery in the forbidden taboo, there are many lessons we can learn from it .Our ancestor’s education methods may differ, they do not like to tell accurately about the consequences. They prefer intimidating so we do not make mistakes. Effects and consequences will be explored slowly, in line with increasing age. In conclusion, taboo and tradition in our society seems to resemble the teachings of error, but actually implied a very valuable lesson.Ok guys,I hope you will entertained with my entry.See you soon.Thank you for reading.

baby dumping issue in malaysia
• 08:28 • 1 comments

"8 babies a day are dumped in Malaysia"-NTV7

    babies are are the gift from the our creator for those who are lucky. but nowadays in magazine or newspaper,baby are dumped by those are not responsible.  who should be blamed on this issue? the girls? or the boys? 

  Based on Bukit Aman Police Headquarters statistics found a total of 780 babies were found dumped between year 2006 to 2012 in all state. this number of cases are increase every year where as much as 65 baby dumping cases has increased to 85 cases in the year 2012. in the first 5 months,almost everyday there are reports about dumped baby cases. you see it in television,a newborn baby found in a back alley. this scenario become more serious from day to day although there a lot of this in mass media.

   Mostly among teenagers were involved in this situations. teenage parent give birth in motel room and leave their child for dead in the dumpster. a girl gives birth in toilet then dumped the baby in the garbage and the baby dead. sometimes they dumped the innocent baby to the river and they are ate by dog or another wild animal. the baby are not guilty,so they not be punished as that.
     What actually lead this to be happened?. first,lack of parental guidance leads to baby dumping. sometimes parents are so busy and doesn't care bout the activities done by their children. so the children will do anything they want due to lack of attention from their parents.  besides,actually teenagers are not stupid to let themselves to sex all around. but because they want to try something new, they do the stupid thing. but if their parents tell to them the bad effect of being pregnant in young stages, definitely their children would not step into the serious problem.
         Then, poverty can cause baby dumping. teenagers does not work at their age so they doesn't have money to support themselves and the baby. so the best way for them is dumped their baby. besides, the perception of society who doesn't accept illegitimate child is one of the main reason of this dumpers to dump their babies. parent cannot accept if their daughter get pregnant because of wider culture of shame.
       Lastly,lack of knowledge which is sex knowledge or religious knowledge is the factor of contributing to baby dumped. sex knowledge is not about how to do sex but actually more to bad effect because of the relationship between gender which is could lead to social problem. while religious knowledge is importance so they will know which is right which is wrong.

     So the way to curb this issue become more worst is parental guiding. Parents should care more bout their children. yes,i know there are busy to find money, but at least spent their time to their children on weekend. this will prevent their children to social activities. besides, parents should give more attention, try to be the best friends to their child. parents should play a big role to teach their children good in their behavior. also parents should guide their children in making decision whether its right or not. 

  Then, in society, stop blaming only women for baby dumping,because all my heart goes out to all those innocent babies abandoned by their young mothers out of desperation. i do not believe the mother would has resorted to such a desperate act if their partner was there for her,if their parents forgave her, and if community showed some sympathy for her and her unborn child. Besides,there is  lot of houses that want the illegitimate baby such as "Rumah Harapan",Baby hatch and so on. 

    Finally, give teenagers so much knowledge whether in religious or sex knowledge. In school, teachers should mention to them about the bad effect of social activities which is can lead to baby dumping. then teachers should teach them how to protect themselves from the useless friends. remember, good friend will brings you to heaven. 

these some pictures of innocent babies,.people,let save them !

I think that's all from my entry this time. till we meet again. sorry for broken English..i am still learning :)

world poverty
• 08:27 • 0 comments
Statistic Verification
Source: Global Issues, The Human Development Report
Research Date: 7.23.2013

World Poverty Statistics
Total Percentage of World Population that lives on less than $2.50 a day50%
Total number of people that live on less than $2.50 a day3 Billion
Total Percentage of People that live on less than $10 a day80%
Total percent of World Populations that live where income differentials are widening80%
Total Percentage of World Income the richest 20% account for75%
Total Number of children that die each day due to Poverty22,000
Total Number of People in Developing Countries with Inadequate Access to Water1.1 billion
Total Number of School Days lost to Water Related Illness443 million school days
Child World Poverty Statistics
Number of children in the world2.2 billion
Number of Children that live in Poverty1 billion
Total Number of Children that live without adequate shelter640 million (1 in 3)
Total Number of Children without access to safe water400 million (1 in 5)
Total Number of Children with no access to Health Services270 million (1 in 7)
Total Number of Children who die annually from lack of access to safe drinking water and adequate sanitation1.4 million
Poverty to Wealthy Ratio Statistics
YearRatio of People at Poverty to Wealthy Level
18203 to 1
191311 to 1
195035 to 1
197344 to 1
199272 to 1

     What is World Poverty? Poverty is the state for the majority of the world's people and nation. Besides, poverty is a social illness, and governments the world over are serious on edadicating it. International agencies like United Nations are also involved in programmes to alleviate poverty. Malaysia is an example of a country which has successfull reduced the poverty level. Other countries, however, have not been so successful, and abject poverty continues to be a prominent feature of these society.

    Around the world, in rich or poor nations, poverty has always been present. Why is this? It is enough to blame poor people for their predicament? In most nations today, the gap between the rich and poor person is quite high. The are many causes of poverty such as a lack of individual responsibility, bad government policy and exploitation by people.Other people feel that the poor intentionally behave ways that causes their poverty.If people volunteer choose to use drug and thiw will lead them to poverty.However, this case cannot fully leads to poverty.

    In addition, the high and standards of living and costs of living also cause a poverty because people in developed nations may have more wealth and resources than those in developing countries, their standard of living is also generally higher.In contrast, in rural areas, people may be accustomed that they do not having plumbing, electricity, or formal health care. Thus,such this living condition are consider as poverty.

   Change in labor markets in this modern countries also contributed to the increasing of poverty. The number of relatively high paying jobs has declined, while the demand for workers in service and technology has increased.As these jobs are replaced by service and technology jobs,this jobs that usually require tough skill at the college level will lead people who cannot afford to pay a college education find it difficult to obtain well paying work.The lack of proper education and training also prohibit the poor from entering  the well paid sectors of economy.

   Futhermore, natural calamities also causes a poverty such as drought and floods destroy crops, and this results is higher suffering and hunger.World hunger is a terrible symptom of world poverty.If efforts are only directed at providing food, then the structural root causes that create hunger, poverty and dependency would still remain. The climate can also be a cause of poverty.The hot climate of India has reduce the capacity of the people to work, and hence, the production cannot be increase in the desired quantity.

   Poverty is a social evil which sometimes so acute that threaten human dignity.If we want to uproot poverty, we must check rate of population growth.Once it is controlled, there would be no poverty, no hungers, and no unemployment.Thus,everything will be on the right track. 



how many people are living in poverty global worldwide ? what are the statistics on world poverty global poverty statistics and facts on world hunger ?jn


• 08:25 • 0 comments
impoliteness or also known as rude is a display or disrespect by not complying with social etiquette of a group or culture. As example,smoking in public,not giving seat for those who are needed,shout you friend's name in the public,drug abuse and others. now lets focus on our topic which is IMPOLITENESS AMONG YOUTH.

  The picture above shows some of youth nowadays show their impoliteness through action.actually what contribute them to this kind of problem? from my view, actually they are lack of  affection from their parents. this because a way of courtesy should be taught to children since they are in home from they were kids. besides,parents should show their good manner in front of their kids because kids learn from what they are see. if parents show the improper manner,this also can contribute to impoliteness. thus,the act will 'inherited'to their kids as they thought it is a fine to do that. in addition, parents actually lack of courage to scold their children when they do wrong because of the word 'love'. this actually cannot be happen.yes i know, which parents doesn't love their kids, but because of this,their kids dare to be impoliteness.
     my second point,the factors of impoliteness among youth is peer influence. youngster actually tried to mimicking their friends behaviour so then they will look good and powerful among them. they have their own group or actually their own 'gang' to show to others that their group are powerful. kids nowadays only thinks about their fun but they don't think about others feeling.as example,this happened to me actually, when i am waiting for a bus then a group of kids came and chase me from the bus stop. i just shaking my head besides thinking what will happen to the next generation.
      But,i actually put most of the concern on media. they actually play a big role to youth because most of the youngster spend their times watch television,surfing Internet and others. in a film as example, the director wants to expose what are reality of nowadays, but in fact they are the caused of politeness depravity indirectly. 

   This is the statistic about social problem in Malaysia.

these pictures show impoliteness among youth nowadays.

this activity can be prevent by giving them religious education,give them some attention, and also give them some advises when they do something wrong. i think that's all from me.till we meet again. sorry for my broken English. i am still learning.. (:   bye

self introduction
Sunday, 6 October 2013 • 11:38 • 0 comments
credit to Nuraifa Ahmad Tarmizi
   "I am the greatest". A very simple yet strong word said by the legendary boxer, Muhammad Ali had always inspired me to be the most excellent person in the field. My name is Nor Arifa Najla Binti Ahmad Zawawi and I am 19 years old. I was born on 7th February 1994.I live in Perak and I was study in Bachelor of Chemical Engineering Technology (hons) In Food at UniKL MICET, Melaka. For me, to be able standing at this level is by receiving the thorough education available. "A thousand mile journey starts with a single footstep". My footstep is symbolised at the first moment i laid eyes on this beautiful and vivid world. My journey does not end here. It is never ending process.

   Being the first daughter child in my family, it is must for me to set good examples. Yes, a really good on, to be followed by my other one younger brother and one younger sister. My first years school experiences at Sekolah Menengah Sains Teluk Intan has moulded me into an all-rounded person, I believe that academics are important, but leadership instincts and good personalities are essential too. Then, I continued my studies at Kolej Matrikulasi Perak for a year. I am neither a bookworm nor a nerd, I am a true leaner.

   Involving in engineering field was not actually my early ambition. As a naive kid,the desire to be a dietitians was definitely there. But as I grew up, I realised that I love to join in outdoor activities and associating in engineering field would be a great choice. I realised that this is a duty of noble respect and I need to work very hard to accomplish my vision and a national mission.

   As a student, it is must for us to have an ambition or wishes. Thus, I wish to be a good engineer and I will be one. The key to nail it is having the flexibility to remain focused and self-possessed in fast paced, demanding environment which I believed I can embody it. What is important to me is that I believed I can do it no matter what challenge comes to me. If others can do, what can't I?.Ir. Nor Arifa Najla and "I am the greatest".

credit to Mr.Google..=)
credit to Muhammad Ali

  Hi,i am Nurul Wahida bt. Abd Aziz. i'm from Bentong, Pahang and i was the least from 6 siblings. I have always wanted to make my own blog but i don't have any  luck because i'm too busy studying. before i further my study in UNIKL,i studied in Pahang Matriculation College. actually,before i decided to further my study in UNIKL,I've got offered from research university in Malaysian Science University (USM) and Malaysian Putra University (UPM. my course in UPM is Science and Environment but i turned it down because the course is not my cup of tea. Haha. while in USM,I've got Science with Educational course. as we know,if we are choose educational course,first,we have to go for an interview. I've passed the interview,simply because i'm too afraid of teaching also i am too worried to educate someone,my future students-to-be,i reject that offer. i know everyone will think i make a big mistake,but its okay. hehe. although USM is one of my favorite university. my friend condemn on me because i let go this opportunity.  but just one quote i put in my heart,along of this tough journey and making a big decision because this is about my future,

so,i decided to choose  UNIKL MICET due to my passion and love towards food ad also chemistry.i never regret to be one of UNIKL students. Because here,i know what is life,i met new friends especially my classmate. they are my soul,my heart also my spirit.i love them because of Allah and i do.thanks Allah for those precious moment.
lastly,believe in Allah or god,you will be able to go through this tougher journey. also,believe yourself,and miracle will happened.

     Nineteen years ago,I came bounding into a world of love and laughter.I was the first child,the first grandchild,the first nephew and the primary focus of my entire family.I came into this world on 12th March 1994.My parent decided to gave me this beautiful name,Nur Assyafa binti Muhamad Aini.My family and I lived happily in a small town in Taiping,Perak.I grew up with opportunities for intellectual and spiritual growth, secure in the knowledge that I was loved, free from fear, and confident that my world was close to perfect.My parent are teachers,so they always advice me to do well in my studies.Since I was the eldest child in my family,I had 3 cheeky younger brothers and  a naughty cute younger sister.
     I experienced the biggest changed in my life when i was 13 years old.After graduated with UPSR with 5A’s,I got the opportunity  to further my studies in a boarding  high school,meaning that I have to live in the hostel,apart from my beloved family.At first,it seemed to be stranged and unusual,but after a month or so,it becomes normal for me.Studying in this school and hostel  life seemed very interesting for me as it taught me to be independence in such a young age.I studied harder to get good results in examination,plus I did not forget to balance  my daily routine such as involved in load of activities like playing basketball with friends and also club activities.
     Thank God,I got 9A’s in PMR.I was really grateful that my effort was a worth.After that,I promised to do better in SPM so that I can pass with flying colours.Somehow,my day became even more challenging without I realized it.I became busier with more responsibilities ,club and co-curricular activities,plus I am a prefect in my school.Believe it or not,I am an English Debator of my school.We are the champion for district level.Even we lost in state level,I was really happy to have such experienced.It really taught me to enhance my self-esteem and I found incredible inspiration to stench  bound of my knowledge.
     However,my busier and hectic daily life had changed my schedule.I sometimes had no time to study,to rest and even to get enough sleep.It really makes me worry as the day of SPM examination was nearly around the corner.My final year in high school became very stressful for me as I had to study harder and harder because my grade kept falling down.But still,I never want to quit from struggling in studies.I decided to try my very best  and my principle  is always to try till the last minutes of my effort.
       Finally after a few months,my result came out.Unfortunately,I did not get straight A’s.My result was not very good and it really makes me feel down and lost hope but then I realized,there is no way sadness and frustrated can solve any problems.I would like to change my point of view and wake up to became a new person.I told myself that I want to succeed,so matter what happened along this journey,nothing can stop me.I deciced to further my studies in matriculation college and promised to do well so that I can fulfill my dream to become a chemical engineer since I love chemical research and studies very much.

     After graduated from matriculation college,I got the opportunities to further my studies in degree level in university.I was really grateful that my dream comes true.Finally,I got the course that I want so much,Bachelor of Chemical Engineering.I promised not to let go of this opportunities.The way I experienced hardship after all this while really help tremendously the way I think of my life and contributing to build a strong-hearted me.Sometimes I had a hard times since there are a lot of challenges as well,but even so,I tried to look at a positive side because I know,it is not an easy way to succeed. I want to make my parents happy and proud to have me.I am responsible to lead the successness of my younger brothers and sister.I want to keep inspired them,inspired other people that no matter what happened in our life,how many failure we have experienced,do not even once think to stop.
      I feel that I am at the perfect place right now and how exactly what I want from my future years in university.Now when I asked myself,”what do you think will happen to you in the next four years?”,I only smile,and know that I am ready for anything.I am a future chemical engineer,may Allah ease everything.

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